Hi all, new to this forum thing but am desperat...

Hi all, new to this forum thing but am desperate. My 2and a half year old BF for 18 mths and there was never any probs was great for us both. DS who is 8 mths has been another story altogether and I can't help take it personally. He was diagnosed with slent reflux at 2 weeks and has had 3 ear infections in this short time. He has 8 teeth and is on solids 3 times a day now. He is 10.4 kilos and 76cm so he thriving, But has just point blank refused to BF waqs only on 2 a day. He won't even take a roll over feed, will wake up and scream to push me away. He drinks water from a cup won't take formula or a bottle at all, never has. Still keep trying and am expressing, but have never had a great outcome with it. The books tell you how wonderful BF is and how natural it is but doesn't comment on what to do when lil DS doesn't want to particioate. I feel so sad:-(. Please any advice much appreciated. Tried the bath to feed, him sitting etc all to no avail!